Former The View co-host Elisabeth Hasselbeck has shared an unusual personal story about meeting Queen Elizabeth II, revealing that nerves led her to unintentionally break royal protocol during a White House state dinner.
Recalling the moment years later, Hasselbeck described the encounter as both memorable and awkward, admitting that her unfamiliarity with royal etiquette led to a greeting that went against traditional customs when meeting the late British monarch.
A Nervous Greeting at a White House State Dinner
The meeting took place during a formal state dinner hosted at the White House in honor of Queen Elizabeth II. Hasselbeck attended the event alongside her husband, Tim Hasselbeck, and recalled feeling overwhelmed by the significance and formality of the occasion.
According to Hasselbeck, she was unsure how to properly greet the monarch when the moment arrived. Without fully understanding the expectations surrounding royal etiquette, she instinctively leaned in for a hug—an action typically considered inappropriate unless initiated by the royal figure.
Traditional protocol surrounding the British monarchy discourages physical contact with the monarch during official greetings. Although a handshake may occur if the monarch offers it, gestures such as hugs are generally avoided, reflecting long-standing diplomatic customs and ceremonial formality.
Royal Etiquette and an Unintended Faux Pas
Hasselbeck explained that the moment quickly became awkward when her greeting did not align with established etiquette. While she did not intend to cause offense, she later realized that the gesture was a significant breach of protocol.
Royal protocol has historically played an important role in maintaining the dignity and tradition of the British monarchy. Even during international visits, such as the Queen’s trip to the United States during the administration of George W. Bush, these customs are generally observed by guests attending official functions.
Hasselbeck acknowledged that she had not been briefed on the expectations beforehand. Looking back, she said the experience served as a reminder of how easily unfamiliar traditions can lead to misunderstandings in high-profile diplomatic settings.
An Embarrassing Dining Moment Adds to the Memory
The evening included another moment that Hasselbeck later described with humor. During the multi-course state dinner, she noticed a small bowl of water placed beside her table setting and assumed it was part of the beverage service.
In reality, the bowl was a finger bowl, traditionally used for rinsing one’s hands between courses at formal meals. Hasselbeck said she nearly drank from it before realizing its purpose.
She later learned the correct etiquette after being discreetly informed by Jeb Bush, who was seated nearby. While the moment felt embarrassing at the time, Hasselbeck now recounts it as a humorous anecdote about navigating the complexities of formal state dinners and royal customs.
