Kandi Burruss is speaking candidly about her separation from husband Todd Tucker, emphasizing that the pair are intentionally working to maintain a strong friendship during their divorce—primarily to provide stability and continuity for their children.
Appearing on NBC’s TODAY, the Grammy-winning singer, entrepreneur, and reality television star explained that although divorce proceedings are ongoing, both she and Tucker remain united in their approach to parenting. Their focus, she said, is to ensure that their two young children experience as little disruption as possible during the transition.
A Shared Priority: Co-Parenting With Stability
Burruss revealed that despite the emotional and logistical challenges that accompany a marital split, she and Tucker have chosen cooperation over conflict. She noted that the decision to remain close is not about maintaining appearances, but about creating a healthy environment for their children as they adjust to changes in the family structure.
The couple, who share a nine-year-old son and a six-year-old daughter, have continued to communicate regularly and make joint decisions regarding their children’s daily routines. According to Burruss, this approach reflects a deliberate effort to keep parenting consistent and reassuring during a potentially unsettling period.
Holidays Together, Even During Divorce Proceedings
One of the most notable examples of their cooperative approach came during the recent holiday season. Burruss confirmed that she and Tucker spent the holidays together with their children, prioritizing family traditions and emotional continuity over personal differences.
She explained that moments such as Christmas and other celebrations were handled with care, ensuring that the children could enjoy familiar family experiences. While acknowledging that the situation can feel “awkward at times,” Burruss stressed that both parents believe these shared moments are essential to their children’s emotional well-being.
Navigating an ‘Awkward Space’ With Mutual Respect
Burruss described the current phase of their relationship as a transitional one—neither fully detached nor traditionally united. She acknowledged that redefining boundaries while remaining supportive co-parents requires patience, communication, and mutual respect.
As both continue to pursue demanding professional careers, Burruss said they are taking the process step by step. Her public comments suggest a long-term goal of evolving their relationship into a genuine friendship, grounded in shared responsibility and respect for one another’s role in their children’s lives.
